Week 4 and 5 are a really
tough time for me at university. It's the time where I start to get homesick,
the novelty is wearing off and the deadlines are starting to approach. I
thought I'd take a moment to get down some of the things I do to help me relax,
de-stress and stay energised at uni, in hopes that it might help some of you!
Second year work load has hit me like a ton of bricks, I've definitely been
focusing on these myself recently. So with that said, here are some of the best
ways to relax while at uni.... (or just in general)
Tidy your room and make your bed - When
you wake up get up and make the bed, this will not only quickly start your day
with some movement but can stop you
wanting to get back into bed. This is
also a good way to get your brain into a good mindset, it's quickly given a
task and even though it's a small task, once completed will give you that sense
of achievement setting you up in a positive mindset for the rest of the
day. Tidying my room helps me clear my mind and feel a bit more on top of
things in general. It also makes your own little space feel a bit nicer to be
in. Hanging up your clothes (or getting the dirty ones into a basket), and sorting out your papers, makes such a difference!
Decorate - While you’re in the tidying mood, get some cute decorations. I know
fairy lights are a bit basic, but honestly photos, cute pillows and fairy
lights really made me feel better when spending a lot of time in my room.
Before going to university, I thought, fuck it I’m only there a year. But it’s
a tough year so anything that makes you enjoy spending time in your room is
fab.
Do
some exercise - This
gets your heart pumping and your blood flowing around your body faster and
more effectively. As well as obviously being good for you, working up a sweat
ultimately gets more oxygen flowing through your body meaning you will feel energised, awake, and less stressed! Plus, the endorphin release gives you the feeling of
reward and will make you feel good about yourself.
Have
you been doing lots of the same thing?
- Sitting or even standing around doing the same or similar tasks can lead to
you feeling tired. This is simply because your brain and muscles are bored.
Even if it’s getting up and doing an odd job like laundry or washing, the
change of scenery, body movement and brain functionality will wake you up and
make it easier to focus on the important tasks.
Stay
hydrated - Obviously this helps your body stay energised, and not drinking enough water will trigger your body to
try conserve energy, aka make you sleepy! What's more, maintaining a strong level of hydration helps the body
flush toxins that may build up or otherwise remain in your system making you
feel healthy and look healthier as staying hydrated promotes better, clearer
skin.
Explore - This is the biggest one and has made such a difference to
me. Until I decided to change, I was spending every day just walking to and
from the university, only going into the city to go clubbing and spending the
whole weekend hungover. But with my flat mates and some of the other girls, we
have made a real effort to go out and explore the city. Whether that’s going to
the union bar for a drink one evening a week, doing our work in coffee shops in
the city, going to events in the city, trying out different, unique and
independent restaurants or going shopping in the local market. Leeds is a lot
bigger and more exciting than where I grew up, so it’s been so good exploring
the city we now live in. It’s also a good excuse to try something new when
someone comes to visit. Every time Sam visits, we try different
restaurants, especially local Thai and Vietnamese places because they’re our
fav!
Even if to you, exploring means
just going to a different club each time, rather than going to Pryzm every
Saturday, that’s good enough for me.
Actually
go to your lectures - I know this is a
bit rouge and I’m not trying to preach about having to attend every single one,
especially if you’re hanging out your ass. But, from experience and talking to
others, once you start missing lectures there’s no going back. And I don’t know
about anyone else, but I feel a lot better by getting up and leaving the flat
rather than spending the whole day in bed. Sometimes.
Have a laugh - This obviously makes you happier immediately, but on top of that, laughing is a great way to get
your body energised, it boosts the release of endorphins and engages a lot of
muscle groups so gets your blood flowing, increasing oxygen levels in your body, making
you more energised.
Get
those cogs turning - Studying one subject at uni can lead
to your brain getting used to this and used to its day to day stimulation.
Working your brain in a different way not only breaks this routine helping you
focus where you want to, but also keeps the areas of the brain that may not get
used active and healthy. Whether it’s a crossword or some mental maths, exercising your brain keeps it healthy and will make you feel more awake.
Essential
Oils - It's
been scientifically proven that citrus based smells and scents can make you
feel more awake and boost productivity. It doesn't matter if it’s a nice
citrusy diffuser or just some fresh lemon in your water. Get those fragrances
flowing.
Get a routine and STOP NAPPING! - Having
a regular time to go to sleep can be just as effective as the sleep itself. If
you pair this with a regular time schedule for eating it can make your body
prepared to wake up and get up before you've even gone to sleep!
Now this is a hard one for me to
write about and is very hypocritical. Despite not going out last night, didn’t get
up till 12:45 today. Hopeless. And I nap at least every other day. So… this is
more of a ‘working on it’ situ, but I’m trying to cut down on naps and get up
at the sameish time each day. If you don’t have anything until 13:00, try at
least getting out of bed at a reasonable time rather than lounging around till
11:45. I mean at the weekend, that might be a bit unrealistic but at least
during the week or days when you haven’t gone out, try and get up and get on
with it. Again, leaving the flat is always a good thing, I promise.
That is everything I can think of for now, I hope some of these are helpful! University can be a really stressful, tiring and honestly, emotionally draining time. So anything you can do to relax is brilliant. I want to do a quick shout out to Sam, who helped write this post with me after dealing with an extremely stressed, exhausted fresher last year. I'm second year now, but still turn to him for advice when I'm feeling stressed. So thanks Sam!
If you have anything you'd add, let me know in the comments below!
As always, thanks for reading :)
I love using these ways to relax, especially tidying my room and using scented candles and oils to chill! I can't imagine how stressful Uni is but I can only think from how stressful school was!
ReplyDeleteShannon x
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Yeah same! I'm not sure what about tidying that I find so relaxing :) School was stressful enough for me!! xx
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ReplyDeleteThese are such great tips!! I always feel so much better when I come home to a clean room!! And mixing things up always puts a spring in my step :) Thanks for sharing!
ReplyDeleteAh you're very welcome and yeah exactly, especially at school/uni/work when you're thinking about the same thing all day! xx
DeleteThese are great tips and ideas, even beyond uni! Now post-college, I still find that these make things so much better for handling stress and "adulting." Thanks for sharing!
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